What Men Want In a Woman According to Online Dating Data 2023

Updated: January 28, 2023

Now although women aren’t that simple, I tend to think that us men, well, we are a little easier to understand. So, here are 5 proven things that came from Zoosk specifically that show exactly what it is that a man wants in a woman.

1. Men are looking for healthy women.

Believe it or not, women with the word CrossFit in their profiles are 39% more likely to get messaged than the average girl. My guess is that it either shows that you have a great work ethic, you take care of yourself, or it is that you’re also rich enough to pay $300 a month to do aerobics in your garage.

2. Men are looking for women who are attractive, but not too attractive.

Ew, no. Ehh, no. Now that’s what I am talking about. Now according to the data, you are 53% more likely to get messaged from men if you are in the kind of higher, above average range. Whereas, you’re only 47% more likely to get messaged by a guy if you’re in that really really top percentage range.

3. Men look for women who live nearby.

Now although some of us might find ourselves in them every once in a while, most of the time we don’t seek out a long-distance relationship. If you live more than 30 miles away than the guy you are far less likely to get messaged than someone who lives nearby. But what if I live in rural Kentucky, and want myself a city boy. It’s simple—move! Now I know it can be really hard to meet people if you don’t live in the city.

4. Men look for younger women, but not too young.

Now, men are 7% more likely to message women if they are 0 to 10 years younger, while they are 74% less likely to message someone more than 10 years younger. So here’s a message to the older women watching this right now, we might be physically drawn to younger women at times, but emotionally and intellectually we want you!

5. Men are looking for non-smokers.

Sure, maybe like to have a little bit of a smoke after you get a little freaky. But I think that if you’re able to have a smoke right after sex, then you’re probably not trying hard enough in bed. So if you smoke right now and you’re single and you’re looking, then it’s time to quit. You can do it. Dating is a great time to really work on yourself and self-improvement


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