Updated: October 25, 2021
Let’s be honest: men can be confusing. No doubt you find yourself deciphering his action, moods, and what his last text message really meant. Whether you’ve been dating for three weeks or three months, his behavior still might confuse you. So how do you stop the madness and get a grasp on this “mysterious” man that you’ve fallen for?
1. Share Your Vulnerable Side, First
No, it’s not just you: men can be emotional vaults. Meaning they can struggle to show their most intimate emotions and can have trouble processing and expressing their feelings. If you’re trying to get your man to open up or communicate, whether it’s about the stress he’s experiencing at his job or regarding a recent conflict, your best bet is to show your soft underbelly side first.
2. Play With Him
Men enjoy their downtime. They connect with their friends by doing things rather than talking about them. Which explains why they zone out whenever they play video games with their buddies or look forward to their Thursday night rock climbing gym night. If you want to get to know your man better, then do an activity together. While date nights are fun, actively engaging with him at a hobby that both of you love – or at least one that you’re willing to try – will deepen your connection.
3. Ask For His Advice
Most men enjoy problem-solving and are given to more logical thinking. Which explains why whenever you vent to him about your friends or family, he seems to come up with a solution, instead of just listening and letting you speak your piece. It might be a little annoying at times, but wanting to fix something is naturally inherent to a majority of male thinking patterns. Use this to your advantage if you want to know how your man feels about a certain topic or situation.
4. Let Him Have Some Space
Men love taking space because they love their freedom. That’s not to say he doesn’t want to be with you, but it’s important for a man to have time to be with himself and he wants to know that you’re okay with that. So when he takes space, give it to him and use that time for you to do the things that you love to do. It’s healthy for a couple to both have their own personal spaces away from each other.
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