Updated: January 30, 2023
Of all the dating apps, Tinder is the most casual but it’s also one of the biggest. So keep in mind that there’s an opportunity to meet a lot of people, but not everyone is looking for the same thing. And with so many guys on the app, the way women use Tinder is vastly different from the way guys use it.
1. Stop with boring messages.
Banter is important for chemistry. Whether it’s you taking the plunge and sending the first message, or your match sending one first, opening lines and dialogue should be fun and interesting. One of the worst things in online dating is when you match with somebody and the first thing they say to you is “Hey” or “Hi”. There’s over one hundred and seventy thousand words in the English language.
2. Don’t use Super Like.
Contrary to popular belief and claims made by others, if you Super Like someone it may help you get noticed more but it’s not necessarily going to help you get the attention you want. Let’s be honest, it can come off as weird and creepy, but more often than not, people assume you just accidentally Super Liked them because it’s so easy to push the button by accident.
3. Use GIFS and memes.
Talking through plain ol’ text isn’t efficient anymore. While there are many issues with communicating exclusively online, the main issue when it comes to online dating is that sometimes when people read your messages they won’t be able to get your subtle sarcasm or notice when you’re making a joke. That’s where gifs and memes can help.
4. Respond in a reasonable amount of time.
I get it, sometimes you don’t want to come off as desperate or too eager and other times you really did happen to put your phone in a locker and go to the amusement park for eight hours, but the term “strike while the iron’s hot” doesn’t just apply to blacksmithing. Online dating has become a cat and mouse game oddly enough. If you take 24 hours to respond to a message, guess what? The other party might take 25 hours to respond as well.
5. Your first pic is key.
First impressions are important. There’s nothing that warrants a swipe to the left faster than a super close-up of your face or a group pic. If you just have a picture of your face you will get waaaaay less swipes than if you do pictures of your whole body. Likewise, if you have a plethora of group pictures, you’ll get left swiped because no one wants to play “I Spy” for you. You should have at least one picture of your head and torso together.
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