Updated: January 25, 2023
The trick is to get more creative with your Tinder icebreakers. This approach lets the woman feel special—not like you carelessly contacted 20 other women with the same “how are you” text.
1. Make it personal.
Personalized openers get the most attention. It shows you took the time to read her profile, instead of just skimming through her pics. She’ll feel like you’re more genuine, which will make her less likely to ignore you. “Hey, you’re also a dog lover? Maybe we should get the dogs together for a date. The owners can tag along too ;)”
2. Tease her a little.
Innocent teasing can work like gold. But once again, make it personal; you can target the joke to reference an activity in her picture or something she wrote in her profile description. On a psychological level, this type of teasing makes her feel like you have a connection already because you’re acting like an old friend. If it works, the flirting will start instantly.
3. Surprise her.
Unexpected wins every time. And no, we’re not referring to those surprise selfies of your nether-regions; we mean the kind that excites her mentally. To create that first spark, ask her a random challenge question. “Peanut butter or jelly?” Quirky and friendly, this question offers a childlike way of getting to know her. She’ll feel amused and provoked to join your silliness.
4. Make a bold move.
If you’re serious about meeting, don’t be afraid to start with a bold move. Many guys are worried about coming off too aggressive, but there’s a huge difference between harassment and simply saying you’re down to meet. If you sense that there may be chemistry with her, go ahead and get right to the point. She may be impressed that you’re not just another time-waster.
Girls have a love-hate relationship with this type of opener. When a guy compliments her while also complimenting himself, it can suggest cockiness. Yet for others, this opening line can be intriguing. Just be careful about which girl you use it with; women of a more mature age may ignore this cheeky approach, but others may enjoy a little ego display. Use your discretion.
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