Blind date? Internet romance? These are red flags that he’s going to be soul-sucking IRL.
1. His other social media profiles are really private.
You’re really hitting it off, but the dude is basically a ghost. No Instagram, no Twitter, no Facebook. No one who online dates is “off the grid.” He’s hiding a dark secret (or he just has a girlfriend).
2. You get a text that seems like it was meant for someone else.
Either he’s being really forward with you or that “thinking of you” text was only sent to you because he wasn’t paying attention.
3. He sends 15 texts in a row when you don’t respond right away.
You didn’t respond to the first five? Time to send nine more just to make sure you’re not missing them. If he’s this … attentive now, just wait until you meet in person.
4. He avoids personal lines of questioning.
You’re probably hoping he has a sexy, checkered past. Maybe he was a spy or something. In reality, he just doesn’t want you to find out about his DUI.
5. He makes every text into a sext.
He knows better than to explicitly text, “I m so horne,” or ask for pictures of your breasts, but he’s always steering the conversation in a sexual direction. Like: “lol u r in bed right now? i wish I was there lol”
6. He flakes out on plans last-minute.
You’ve had plans to meet up on multiple occasions, and something always happens. Either his mom gets sick or he gets a flat tire or his mom gets sick again. Bailing twice might be an unfortunate coincidence. Bailing eight times means he’s hoping you’ll send him nude pictures without him ever having to actually meet you.
7. He leads off with a dick pick.
Even if it’s a really pretty dick, the odds that this guy is going to be a good husband are slim to none. There’s no future here.
8. He only has a single profile pic.
Either he has low self-esteem, doesn’t care about pictures, or that picture is not at all indicative of him. You shouldn’t be one to judge a book by its cover, obviously, but if he’s actively trying to deceive people, that says a lot about his personality. And to be totally fair, physical chemistry is still important.
9. He never wants to meet up in person.
If he talks to you constantly but doesn’t meet up, or have social media profiles, or ever want to video chat … you’re probably being catfished. Start doing reverse image searches. Y’all have probably seen the show by now. You know how to do it.
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