Updated: February 4, 2023
Simply put, men and women flirt and interpret flirting differently. To you, it seems obvious that your flirting tactics are meant to get his attention. But he might not see what you’re trying to do—or even read your behavior as flirtatious at all. Here are some basic flirting signs guys miss all the time.
1. Dressing to impress
It’s not that guys don’t notice when you look nice; they definitely take note. It’s that many of them don’t understand that you made an effort because of them. If you’re feeling frustrated that a guy isn’t responding to the work you put into your outfit or appearance to impress him, it’s because he hasn’t connected the dots to understand that you look nice for his benefit.
2. Giving compliments
Paying a guy a compliment is a classic flirting tactic. You might tell him his hair looks great, his shirt is stylish, or that he smells nice—and think he understands that you have a crush on him. But guys don’t automatically equate compliments with flirting.
3. Laughing a lot
Laughter is a great way to show someone you’re listening to what they’re saying and that you enjoy their company. But guys don’t think it means they’re interested. In fact, laughing at everything they say could have the opposite effect: It could make you seem sort of ditzy or like you’re trying too hard.
4. Asking for help
Whether you simply ask him to grab something out of your reach or you ask him to come over and help you take out your A/C window unit, asking for help is a great flirting tactic for a number of reasons. It gives you an excuse to have his sole attention, it makes him feel good for being needed, and it’s an opportunity for a little shameless ego-stroking.
5. Dropping hints.
Subtlety doesn’t work with guys, plain and simple. If you ask him what he’s doing this weekend thinking he’ll take the hint and ask you to hang out, he probably won’t; you have to ask if he wants to meet up. If you ask him to recommend a bar in the area thinking he’ll pick up on your signal and ask you out for a drink, he probably won’t; you have to ask him if he wants to get drinks.
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