Updated: August 18, 2022
Every office has different rules for dating, so maybe check these out before you go any further. But even if your company is pretty ok with office romance, we advise only pursuing your work crush when you feel it’s worth it. In order to make that decision, it can help to know if your coworker is up for giving your romance a shot too. Here’s our guide on how to know if your coworker is into you.
1. He shows up in the same places as you
If he’s always showing up at places in the office where you are but he doesn’t need to be, it’s a good indication that he wants to see you. Maybe you’re on different teams but he always grabs the desk next to you. Or does he take his lunch at a specific time just so you can eat together?
2. He attends after work events that you go to
Happy hours are a great way for you to get to know each other in a more casual setting without it necessarily being a date. It’s still an environment where you both feel comfortable, but it doesn’t change the nature of your relationship.
3. He knows things about you that your coworkers don’t
If your coworker starts talking to you about things that they saw on your social media, it means that they’re actively taking an interest in your life beyond work. This might be a sign that they want to become a part of it. Next time he replies to one of your posts or sends you a funny meme, don’t stop there. Ask him about his evening or how his day was.
4. You notice that he talks to you more than other coworkers
Maybe he comes up to you to chat about a movie he saw that he thinks you’ll like? Or does he message to show you a video that reminded him of you? Conversations like these show he’s been thinking of you outside of work hours. If he’s remembering little facts, it may be because he considers you important and enjoys getting to know you.
5. He remembers little things that other people don’t
A lot of coworkers make small talk. Sometimes you end up having the conversation with the same coworker about the same unimportant things. But with him, he remembers what you say and goes further. He builds on the last conversation rather than repeatedly having the same chat. This could be because what you say matters to him.
6. How to tell if a guy likes you at work? Look at his work buddies
If he’s been at the company for a little while, he’s likely to have developed his clique. We all have our work friends. And he’s no exception. So pay close attention to how his work friends interact with you.
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