Updated: February 4, 2023
So the man you like is showing you signs that he’s interested in you? Congratulations! That’s half the battle! Now you want to know how to keep him interested.
1. Highlighting Your Personality
Be confident. Guys love it when their partner is confident and bold. Take good care of yourself, and make an effort to look as good as you feel. Tell him when you appreciate the things he does. Don’t take him for granted. Let him know you really love how he stays calm in stressful situations, or that you especially appreciated that he cleaned the kitchen after he made dinner. Surprise him with things he likes. As the two of you are getting to know each other better, make sure to ask him questions about what he likes.
2. Avoiding Common Pitfalls
Don’t play hard to get too long. It’s fine to be a little mysterious to keep your guy curious about you, but let him know you’re interested. Playing games isn’t a good way to start a long-lasting relationship, and he might lose interest if he has to work too hard to get your attention. Don’t act jealous of his female friends. You want a guy who’s comfortable around women, right? If you expect him to get along with your female bestie, you should take it as a good sign if he already has female friends. If he wanted to date them, he probably would be already.
3. Keeping Him Sexually Interested
Wait until the timing is right to have sex. This is different for every couple, so just see what happens naturally. If you jump right into a sexual relationship before you know each other very well, he might not see the two of you as having a serious future. Make your sex life a priority no matter how busy your life gets. As you settle into a relationship, all kinds of distractions start to crowd in. If you eventually have kids together, that becomes even more true.
4. Maintaining Interest after an Argument
Pick your battles. Don’t start an argument every time he leaves his socks on the floor. Focus on what you like about him, rather than the things he does that annoy you. If he sees that you don’t start arguments over petty issues, he’ll be more likely to listen when you have a problem you want to talk about. Try to resolve issues calmly. Try to have a conversation rather than an argument. Remember that this is a person you care about, and you’re both working to build a life together.
5. Don’t Stockpile Your Problems
Hanging on to hurt feelings can build up, and then when you argue you let it all out. Instead of dealing with one issue, you’re arguing about several different things, and there’s no way to actually fix them. Talk about problems as they come up. If there are a lot of unresolved issues in your relationship, you might need to evaluate whether you’re with the right person.
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