Updated: March 2, 2021
There’s a lot of options out there and it’s a lot easier to meet the right person if you’re looking on an app for people who are looking for the same thing as you. So be honest with yourself about what you’re looking for and what kinds of people you want to make connections with.
1. Don’t skip the bio.
You couldn’t take the time to write a bio so you’re not going to be someone who anyone is going to want to take the time to get to know. It generally screams, “I’m just here to hook up,” which is fine if you’re just here to hook up. But if you’re looking for long-term connections, put some time into your bio.
2. Avoid the cliches
Tinder bingo is a thing. So take the time to know the cliches and make an effort to set yourself apart. Seriously, it’s very tiring to see photo after photo of a man holding a fish. We still don’t know why those photos are so common and yet Tinder fish are everywhere. If your bio and photos are swimming with cliches, it’ll make any potential match think that there’s not much to know about you.
3. Message when you match
Whether you’re a guy or a girl doesn’t matter. If you’re into someone and you matched with them, talk to them. Don’t play the “who’s going to message first” game. Just message them. If you leave someone sitting in your matches, after a while, that’s where they will stay. You’ll both eventually forget that they are there. And your chance at a potential connection is gone. If you never message, your match will simply think you’re not that interested.
4. Have fun with your message
They were weird and wonderful conversations that led to weird and wonderful relationships. Start your messages with the cards on the table: this is me and this is what I like to talk about. If they’re game, they’ll respond and you might have just found an awesome connection. If not, you don’t have to waste your time talking about the local weather for the fiftieth time.
5. Take it off the app as soon as you’re ready
Facing facts, messaging on most apps is not that great. It feels somewhat impersonal. If you’ve met someone a week ago and you’re still talking on the app, it just feels that something is wrong. Is there a reason you’re hesitant to give them your number? If so, you definitely don’t want to meet them in real life. But if you’re ready to meet someone, make the jump to put them in your phone. It’s easier to text than it is to keep opening the app to talk
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