Updated: August 14, 2022
So you have no problem rousing a guy’s interest, but keeping him interested is a different story. Time and time again, they fall hard, but they don’t stick. You wonder if it’s you, if you’re doing something wrong. And with that, here is exactly how to keep a man interested in you:
1. Show interest in his interests
Ask him about the things he enjoys and really listen for the answers, follow up with more questions. Ask him to take you to see his favorite band, or watch his favorite movie. If you fake this then you’re just playing a game and it won’t work and will probably push him away instead. It has to be a real, genuine interest.
2. Show appreciation
Men want to be seen and appreciated for who they are. And no man is ever going to come right out and ask you for this, it’s on you to know it. And now you do. Don’t just expect him to do things for you, appreciate him for it, for things big and small. Appreciate the things he does as well as, and even more importantly, the person he is.
3. Accept that sometimes men need space
Accept him for who he is without demanding him to change to meet your needs. Sometimes he’ll need things that you aren’t happy with, but you still need to respect that this is what he needs and that he is an independent person and isn’t on this earth only to serve you.
4. Don’t commit too soon
In the early phases of a relationship, you’re discovering how compatible you are and if a committed relationship would make sense. It’s about seeing how well you get along, how well you get each other, and if you want the same kind of relationship and the same things in life. It’s actually fun when you release all the fears, insecurities, and pressure that usually get saddled in.
5. Don’t try to prove your worth.
You don’t have to prove yourself to him. You don’t need to do things or say things in order to be “good enough.” You don’t need to obsess over what to text him back and what to say and how to act. The reason books about “rules” work is because they teach you how to convey the image of confidence, but this doesn’t get to the root of the problem.
6. Understand how men operate
Men aren’t women. They experience things differently, and that includes emotions and relationships! A major mistake women make is punishing men for not acting more like women. She doesn’t understand how he can get so wrapped up with his work he forgets to text her for an entire day because women are typically better multi-taskers than men.
7. Be your best self
Don’t compare yourself to others, that’s always a losing battle. Trust me, every woman on earth has features she wishes she could trade in. But that’s a waste of time to think about, just work with what you have. The outside does have an impact on the inside.
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